It’s as if you are struggling against the current, or swimming upstream in an effort to find your true love, when true love is found in the releasing of energy. If you are exerting a great deal of effort and energy in trying to make your true love happen, it may actually produce an energy field which will prevent your beloved to be drawn to you. This state of increased awareness and alertness can actually be counterproductive in terms of the laws of attraction. You’re aware of your tendency to make bad choices, and you’re more aware of what’s going on around you.
When the chemical reaction begins to subside, you wake up one morning, look over at the person sleeping next to you and ask yourself, “How’d I get myself into this mess?”Īt that point, you either try to make the best of it or cut and run.īut when you’re cognizant, purposely and lovingly waiting, holding your own loving and sacred space for “the one,” it’s a whole different deal. Your body and brain chemistry get triggered and the attraction faction takes over your ability to rationalize what’s happening. There’s a good chance that in the past, you sort of jumped the gun and found yourself in a full-blown relationship due to premature infatuation. You’ve realized that the way you went about it in the past did not serve you well, so you’re a little (or a lot) more particular about what’s going on inside your potential love interest. The best love relationships come as the result of filling yourself with so much love and letting it spill over into the lives of those around you. Firstly, you have a better understanding of what you have to bring to a potential relationship. When you are deliberately and intentionally going about attracting or seeking your ultimate mate, now (hopefully) you’re going about it in a different way. There are many reasons why we do it wrong which can be traced all the way back to your birth (and even before). It’s not that, “Your picker’s broken.” It’s more that you’re just not doing it right. Likely, if you’re in the process of finding the right person, especially if the reason is that you’ve selected the wrong person in the past or even a long succession of wrong people in the past, it’s because you’ve been doing it wrong. Getting matched-up with the person who truly is the perfect match for you is not something you want to rush. There’s one dominant reason that people declare love comes when you least expect it, because in most cases that’s the way it goes, even when you’re fervently working toward manifesting your perfect mate.
Even when the love manifestors are out there coaching us on how to flip the switch to make love appear in our lives (I know, I’m one of them), why is it that people still claim that love comes when you least expect it?
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